Making Changes While In A Relationship

I know whenever you get into a relationship every once in a while you might feel like making a few changes to your appearance, just to spice things up. Before you decide to make any changes, please talk to your boyfriend first. Yes, I know it is your body and you can do whatever you want with it, just remember there are two people in this relationship. Your boyfriend is going to have to look at the decision you make everyday.

If you don’t ask him what he thinks before you do it, he is going to feel like you don’t value his opinion. Then if you come home with a new style he is not attracted too, its going to be hard to ignore. Instead ask him for his opinion and if it turns out bad he can’t be upset with you. Here is a funny video from Man Stroke Woman with this exact concept.


Paul Wright

4 thoughts on “Making Changes While In A Relationship

  1. Justine
    May 10, 2011 at 8:02 pm

    lol that vid is pretty funny. but i don’t think women do go out to dress hideously or as wacky (unless it’s just their thing).

  2. Jenniczyk
    May 19, 2011 at 11:05 pm

    Funny video, although it just looks like she glued a manbeard to her face lol. Good points. As an indecisive chick, I change my hair often and sometimes regret it when I see the look on my boyfriend’s face. It always grows back though.

  3. Jen
    May 24, 2011 at 10:21 pm

    I agree with this. As much as I can do whatever I want, it’s still important to let my partner know what I’m doing, especially if it’s with my appearance. After all, who will be the one who will see and look at me most? It’s him right. If he doesn’t like what he’s seeing, he might go off looking for other things to see.

  4. Maria
    May 4, 2014 at 4:10 am

    This is really funny and it brings to mind a past relationship. I have curly hair and one day decided to surprise his by coming home with it straight. Everyone loved it and said how young it made me look. I’ll never forget his reaction when I walked in. He was actually angry with me! I couldn’t understand why the anger reaction, afterall it is my hair and my life. This explains it all to me. If I had told him that I was going to do it first he would have expected it and known that I valued his opinion. Thinking back he always told me when he was going to shave his head. He knew I didn’t like but told me first and did it anyway! lol.

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